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I found out my friend Megan had started the Couch to 5k program which got me really excited as Megan’s roommate Becca and try to do a 5k together every month. I told her I’d restart the Couch to 5k program with her as I’ve never actually finished the program. I always start and then do it for a while and just never finish. Needless to say, I’m already off to a bad start because I did Week 1 Day 1 on Monday Aug 14 and it is not Tuesday, August 22 and I just did Week 1 Day 2 (hahaha). Don’t fret though, I did the Jefferson City Hotter ‘n’ Hell 5k on Saturday so definitely got my miles in last week. I not only finished the race faster than last year, but it was my fastest race to date by 30 seconds.

As I’ve said before, I’m by no means a fast runner. My time was 45:30 which is obviously nothing to brag about but the fact that I made a PR motivates me. It motivates me to keep going, to set goals, to complete the Couch to 5k program with my friend, even if it takes me more than 8 weeks. So here are my goals:

  • Complete the Couch to 5k program, even if it takes more than 8 weeks
  • Run a 5k in under 40 minutes by December 31. (This may be lofty goal as it only gives me 4 months to shave off 5 and a half minutes, but we’re going to work on it)
  • Run at least 3x a week, Crossfit not included

Sometimes running for me is a hit or miss. If it’s too hot, it’s usually a bust and I don’t do well (ie June 5k). Some days I’m just not feeling it, but luckily Saturday was not one of those days. I have been running off and on for more than a year now and have picked up a few tips on running in general and 5ks that have helped me tremendously and will hopefully help you too.

  • Music-find some tunes that motivate you! I use Pandora and the two stations I like to use are Zumba (up beat for cardio) and Brittney Spears Radio. I find the Brittney Spears Radio tends to have more girl power songs which I totally get me in the zone when I’m running (especially Christina Aguilera’s “Stronger”).
  • A belt! I finally bit the bullet and bought a running belt. The pros is that it’s so much easier and less annoying than an arm band for your phone or ipod and it can hold things like car keys and credit cards. The cons are that it’s harder to skip songs you don’t like and my phone is huge so I have to take the case off the phone to get it to fit in the belt. Small price to pay to not have to deal with the arm band. Also, finding a plus size belt may be difficult. I’m lucky that I can squeeze my ass into a size large from Dick’s Sporting Goods but it’s a little more snug than I’d like it to be.
  • Good shoes! No brainer! Shoes can make all the difference, though the fastest mile I’ve ever ran was in shoes that were too narrow. My feet hurt so much I couldn’t wait to get home.
  • Stretch every single leg muscle you can think of. Running is hard on your body and most pain (Especially in joints) is cause by tight muscles. So make sure you’re stretching your foot, ankles, heel and Achilles, calves, IT band, hamstrings, quads, glutes. Don’t be shocked if you’re sore everywhere but your legs the next day. I am frequently sore in my abdomen, back and shoulders from holding my posture for 3 miles. The more you do it the more you get used to it.
  • When breathing is difficult I find it helpful to breath in through my nose for three steps and breath out through my mouth for three steps. It absolutely slows my running down but sometimes that’s what I need. I’m to the point now that it’s rare for me to get winded while running. Normally I stop because my legs are on fire (need to be better about stretching those heels) but on days it’s really humid, I start too fast, or my sinuses are just plugged I find this trick helpful.
  • Run in intervals. Last year when I did the Hotter ‘n’ Hell 5k I had one goal and that was to see how far I could run before stopping. It was amazing, I made it over a mile without stopping (first time ever in my life I ran a mile without stopping); however, my legs were shot for the rest of the race. At the time I didn’t care because my goal was not time it was to challenge myself not to stop. However, now that my goal is always time I run in short intervals, similar to the way they do it in the Couch to 5k program of the Ease into 5k program. I downloaded a simple interval clock for HITT workouts and set it. On Saturday, I decided I wanted to do 2 minutes of running followed by 2 minutes of walking. It worked great. I was tired toward the end and a few of the last intervals I wasn’t able to make it the entire 2 minutes running, but it was fine! I still finished 30 seconds faster than my 5k time in May, which was a new personal record.
  • If you’re playing tag with one person the entire race, make it your goal to beat them. There is almost always one or two people who pass me and then I pass them as we’re running. I usually make it my mission to finish before those people. What that means is when I see the finish line, I’m running and if they’re running and I’m behind them (which I usually am) I am sprinting. You’re not always going to beat them across the finish line, but it will help shave off a few seconds and it will give you someone to stick with when you’re feeling tired.
  • If you can see the finish line you should be running, regardless of whether you’re in a run or walk interval.
  • Always sprint across the finish line. Shave off those seconds where you can.
  • Get off the treadmill. Nothing replaces running on the street or on a path. When running on a treadmill the belt moves you forward meaning your running technique can be off making street running and races much harder. The treadmill has it’s place (ie inclement weather) but the street is always better.
  • Make it fun. I say it all the time, I hate running and I notice a huge difference in how well I perform when the 5k has a fun and festive feel to it compared to just a boring 3 miles. Also don’t be afraid of trail runs! Yes, they are challenging and sometimes they’re even longer than a 5k (the one I did was a 7k). Yes you will be sore the next day if all you ever do is run on flat paths and roads, but it’s so worth it. Constantly having to look at the trail ahead of you so you don’t trip keeps you mind occupied, the scenery is usually fantastic and you’ll challenge yourself in ways that are not possible on the road. Trail running definitely keeps running fun.

If you’re thinking about starting running, I would encourage you to try it. If you’re not sure where or how to start, check out Couch to 5k or Ease into 5k. If you can’t run a full minute, don’t fret. You can repeat weeks as often as you need to. I can guarantee that I will be repeating some weeks. Completing one of these program is not a race. Do it at a pace that works for you. And runners, if you have any other tips and tricks on running please put them in the comments. I would love to hear them!

You look like you’ve been losing weight

I’ve gotten this a lot in the last few months and I never get tired of hearing it. It’s noticeable. The work clothes I bought when I initially dropped 30 lbs are starting to become baggy. The pants I bought that were tight are fitting well. While my weight is not going down as quickly as I like, these other indicators definitely help me to stay motivated because the truth is the scale is a lying liar who lies. 

The truth is that I weight the same as I did last June, but those gray pants that used to be too tight fit perfect. Those black pants that used to fit perfectly are too baggy and that black shirt is starting to look too big too. But the scale is the same. In fact to give you a little more insight, I weigh about 20 lbs more than I did in 2011, but I’m almost a size smaller. I weigh a lot more than I did when I graduated high school, but I’m the same clothing size.

It’s so important in your journey to measure your success in multiple ways. I don’t keep inches (though I probably should) but I do know that I’m getting smaller. I can tell when I look in the mirror. I can tell by the way my clothing fits. I can tell because a lot of people are making comments. I also have measurements of my body fat percentage that I will eventually retest. But if I relied solely on what the scale told me I’d be in a world of disappointment because the truth is, I’m losing inches much faster than I’m losing “weight.”

So if you are just starting your journey or restarting your journey for the 115th time, know that the scale is not always a true indication of what’s really happening. Find other ways to measure your success. May that be measuring inches, getting a body fat scan, taking progress photos, monitoring how far you can run before stopping, how many sit-ups you can do in a minute, how much closer you are to getting that pull up. You never know, these other indicators may be what keeps you going. They may be the thing that stops defeat and makes the 115th attempt the successful attempt. Don’t let the scale make or break you. It’s journey, it has ups and downs and sometimes your progress and hard work are not always obvious. But I promise, if you put in the work you will reap the benefits.


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Back from my week long hiatus


Life gets chaotic sometimes. Between two jobs, traveling for whatever, my dogs, doctor appointments from being rear ended and overtime sometimes I just need to disconnect. Last week was that week. After a week vacation in which I was on the run more than I was relaxed and going back to work as soon as I got back I decided to focus my week on getting back into the gym and getting back in the green on Eat to Perform. I realize that as new as this blog is taking a week from posting is probably not the best idea, I needed to just not worry about it for a while.

While I was on vacation they dropped my fat macros by 10 grams every day. I couldn’t eat dark meat chicken for two meals without hitting my fat and being left with protein and a ton of carbs. So readjusting to that, especially when I had no time to go grocery shopping before heading back to work was difficult. After about two days of completely screwing up my macros I started hitting greens again. Needless to say I dropped all the weight I put on over vacation and hit 4 lbs below my goal weighing in this morning at 265.2 lbs. I asked to get my fat back now that I hit my goal and they graced me with 3 grams per day of the 10 they took away (I wish you could have seen my eyes roll) and of course as always they gave me more carbs. My next goal is 263.4. Hoping to hit that this week. I also hit the gym 2x this week making it on Tuesday and Thursday. I would like to also restart Couch to 5k this week among the millions of other things I feel like I need to get done so we will see how that goes.

This weekend I have done absolutely nothing. I watched tv, napped, and made sure I hit my macros and while I feel like I completely blew a weekend, I am hoping to be recharged and ready to take on the next couple weeks of travel and overtime.

As for the Crossfit games, they were fun. Noah did fantastically placing 14th overall being one of the youngest boys to compete in his age division. The guy who won was pretty much 3 full years older than him. Camping was okay though I don’t know that I’d consider it camping. Yes we slept outside and dealt with the elements, though I don’t feel we did a lot of what makes camping great like hiking, rock climbing, etc. I’d definitely like to revisit Lake Kegonsa State Park and hit the trails and the lake.

The dogs also went camping that weekend with my family. According to Nicka’s doggie fitbit she had a lot of activity and not much sleep so the two of them crashed for about two days once we got back. All in all it was a good adventure and nice to get some fresh air. Also, in related dog news, I took their weights today and Delnicka is holding steady at about 17.8 lbs. She could stand to lose a little more weight, but she looks amazing compared to the 20 lbs she was when I brought her back to live with me after a year living at grandma’s. Chucho is up to 5.8 lbs which is a far cry from the 4.8 lbs he was when I adopted him in May. I’m happy to report you cannot feel as much of his spine as you used to and he now has an adequate amount of meat covering his hips. So everyone here has been happy and healthy!

The Word “Tone”

Tone. You see this word everywhere. Seriously! Go to Pinterest and head for the Health section. You’ll see a bunch of “10 moves to tone your arms” “30 day challenge; fully body toned workout.” But what is toned? What the hell does that even mean?

Most people think of toning as losing fat to show more definition in a certain area. But I’m going to hit you with some truth and hold on to your skives because it might change everything you think you know about fat loss. You cannot spot target fat. Meaning, your body, not your mind call the shots on where your fat disappears from first. So, you can run 10 miles a day and yes, you will gain some leg and core muscles from running, but you may lose fat in your face, or in your arms. You may not lose any fat in your ass. Squatting will give you the glutes of a god, but it might not get rid of the fat dimples on your butt. Why? Because your genetics and your body type determine where you lose fat first.

For me, I tend to lose fat rather proportionally, which you may think is lucky, but I have a big ol’ belly that I’d like to catch up with the rest of my body before I start losing fat everywhere else. But, my body doesn’t give a shit about what my brain wants. It doesn’t care about my ego, my insecurities, what pop culture tells me is beautiful. It loses fat where it decides it’s going to lose fat. So you may hate your big gut, your thunder thighs, your bat wings, or your turtle neck and I’m here to tell you stop targeting your fat. You can do all the crunches in the world and you still may lose weight from your legs first.

I will never tell you to stop doing core exercises, as a strong core is important for basically every movement we do; however, it is also important to work your legs, arms, etc too. Your entire body is important. Don’t skip leg day just because you want to lose fat in your arms. Your body will lose fat where it needs to lose it first and the rest will follow. If you continue with your healthy lifestyle and exercise you can most definitely lose fat and gain muscle and have a healthy ass body that is designed to function the way it was intended to.

In the meantime can everyone please do me a favor and take the word “tone” out of your vocabulary. It’s a wimpy word they created for women to down play the bad asserie that is us being strong and sexy af.

That’s my message for the day. I’ll be back bringing more bad ass stories and info to you on Friday.

-The Fathlete

Trampoline Park & Crossfit


Despite eating too much fat and carbs the last two days I was very happy to wake up today three pounds lighter. I’ve been killing it all week until Saturday. My drive home went wonderfully. I hit all my macros by packing a cooler!  Now I’m struggling. My mom is not big on the lean protein.

Today was a busy day. I took my nephew to celebrate his 11th birthday since I will be missing his party this weekend. We started at the trampoline park where we jumped for an hour (if you’re reading this from Green Bay they have a Groupon right now)! Afterward, we went to Bay Beach in Green Bay and rode the rides, went to the Texas Road House where we devoured some bread and steaks, then finished up with Cold Stone. It was a pretty great day and I definitely think my nephew had fun.

My favorite part of my journey through fitness is all the amazing things I can do. Last year for Dameon’s Birthday I took him rock climbing and I was able to rock climb with him. I never would have been strong enough to do that before Crossfit. This year, we went to the trampoline park and despite my tight calf acting up, I was able to jump for the majority of the hour with short breaks to cool off. Afterward, I got my 11,000 steps in and still got a Crossfit workout in after I digested my Texas Road House steak.

I also got received great news from my friend Jess (shout out) today that she is down almost 40 lbs! How awesome and exciting! I love hearing about the success of my friends, it’s definitely motivating and inspiring!

My plan for the rest of the week is try to focus on protein, get a Crossfit workout in tomorrow, and get ready for camping and the Crossfit games! So excited, but this vacation is flying by way too quickly. I can’t believe it’s almost Tuesday.

Until next time followers!

-The Fathlete

On the road again

Do you ever look at people’s Instagram (IG) accounts or their blogs and think, what the hell does this person do for a living that they have all this time to do all this stuff? I feel like that ALL THE TIME. I follow some people on IG who have lost some weight or are amazing athletes and I swear they must be making enough money of their IG accounts via sponsorship and whatever else that they were able to quit their job because every time I see their account they’re in a new city, doing something new and exciting. My life is not like that. I’m incredibly normal (but fun). I work a Monday to Friday full time job. I also work a second job at a retail chain for extra money. I have a disgusting amount of student loan debt and some consumer debt too.

But I do travel quite a bit. Mostly, because I work as an international business consultant at my 8-5, also because all of my family is in Wisconsin and as I went to school near the WI/MN border, many of my friends live in the Twin Cities. In 2017, I have managed to travel to Orlando, Abu Dhabi, Los Angeles, Montreal, Milwaukee/Green Bay, Twin Cities and just got back from Washington DC, last Thursday. Today, I’m leaving for another trip to Milwaukee/Green Bay and later this month will be back to Minneapolis. I love to travel so I don’t mind, but my trips to Wisconsin are normally very short. I spend 10.5 hours in my car, one way to spend maybe 20 hours with my family to have to turn around and drive another 10.5 hours. But this time I’m super excited because I am using 6 days of vacation to not have to think about or worry about my job for 10 full days!

I have a few reasons for this trip. One is that my favorite nephew is turning 11, so I need to figure out what to do with him (if you have any ideas, please share). Also, since the Crossfit Games have moved from California to Madison, Wisconsin I bought tickets to go see Noah Casey (M 16-17 yr old division) compete! Noah is the son of one of the couples that own the gym I attend. He’s such a polite and wonderful kid. If you’re watching the games on ESPN or even at the games, look for him. He’s a red head, hard to miss :).

Okay, great. I’m traveling again and going to the games. Why am I rubbing this in? What does this have to do with being a fathlete? Well, the reason for this post is to tell you that the one thing I have not yet figured out is eating on the road. You’d think it would be easier when I go to see my family than when I travel for work (and in some ways it is) but let me tell you. o.0 My mom’s food scale never works and the town she lives in is the size of a pea. The last time I was in town the only grocery store for 10 miles, that closes at 8 pm on week days and 5 pm on Sundays, doesn’t even have rotisserie chickens for when I’m starving and have 0 desire to ruin a chicken by attempting to cook it because as I said I’m awful at it.

So last night, I spent my time at the grocery store stocking up on beef jerky and chicken, filling a cooler with chicken, protein drinks and fruit and getting ready to hit the road and be healthy about it. Wish me luck. I’ll let you know how it goes. I may even stop to pick up a $20 scale to travel with. May also help when camping for the games next week.

Perhaps if I can master this I’ll be one step closer to figuring out how to hit my macros while I’m traveling for work. Between the hotels without refrigerators, the crap carb filled breakfasts, and all the restaurant meals it’s a bit of a nightmare. If you all have any tips, please share. For now, it’s grapes, chicken, two dogs and a 7 hour drive up to Milwaukee.

You’ll hear from me next week!



Inspiration from Twitter

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I’ve had a Twitter account on and off over the years. I had one for years that I recently deactivated because I never used it. Generally when I want fitness inspiration I turn to Instagram or Pinterest. So, with the start of this new blog I decided to try Twitter again (@TheFathleteBlog) and this time focus on fitness. So, I’ve gone through and followed a bunch of fitness pages, about 20 and the other day I’m scrolling through the home page only to come across a quote that said “Instead of trying to be skinny, try to be healthy…your motivation will last longer.”

That struck all the right chords. That’s the entire purpose of not only this blog, but my personal journey in fitness. Do I hate being the only girl in my group of friends at the bar not getting hit on because I’m fat? Yes. Do I wish it was easier to shop for clothes that actually fit and look flattering? Yes. And that may be why I started, but it’s not why I continue. I continue because I don’t miss waking up everyday with indigestion. I continue because I like being able to breath walking up stairs (allergies permitting). I continue because I like how it feels to throw a barbell over my head, to tell people I can squat 200 lbs, to complete a workout faster than I did last year. I continue because sometimes the only thing that stops me from sobbing is absolutely killing myself in the gym. That release I feel listening to the weights hit the floor when I’ve had the shittiest day keeps me going. It’s my motivation. It’s lasted more than 1.5 years and continues to burn brightly. Sometimes my drive is strong and sometimes it fades, but it’s always there.

On days it’s 100 degrees in the gym, I still show up. On days I’m exhausted, I still show up. On days where the last thing I feel like I can do is lift up a barbell, KB, or jump on a box, I show up. On days my elbow hurts or my back or calf is tight, I still show up. Do I still dream about the day that I’m feel comfortable in a bikini? Absolutely. But who knows if I will ever reach that destination. For now my goals are to lift more, run faster, and jump higher. Because those are the things that give me confidence. The things I think I can’t do then accomplish propel me forward into wanting to be even better tomorrow than I was today. That’s why I can go to Crossfit at 270 lbs and jump on a 20″ box. That’s why I can do push ups, lunges, and finish a 5 mile run. It’s why I can look at myself in the mirror and maybe not like what I see, but still love my body.

If you shift your focus from being thin to being healthy your outlook and your journey will be so much more rewarding.

-The Fathlete

12 runs in 12 months

Last year my friend Becca asked me to be her running partner for 5ks. She wanted to a run every month, including a half marathon. I told her she was on her own for the half (hahaha), but I’d definitely do the shorter runs with her! So in January, we started with a 7k trail run in below freezing weather. It was FANTASTIC!

Let me tell you how nervous I was going into this race. I was thinking, man it’s a trail run in January it will only be serious runners. I can barely do a 5k how am I going to do 2 more kilos? But, the race was definitely not what I expected. Definitely some serious runners including a few from my Crossfit gym, but also some people who had walked it the year before and were just there to improve their time.

I finished the run. It was grueling with some serious hills and terrain, but I’ve never had more fun while running (because remember I hate running). Since January, Becca and I have completed runs every month including two in May. Unfortunately, as Mid Missouri is boiling hot during the month of July, we couldn’t find any local runs that we were really interested in, so we will skip July but we already have plans underway for August (literally named Hotter’n’Hell 5k) and I just found another 5 miler that sounds fun for September.

I don’t run often. In fact I still have not completed the c25k program because I’m just not disciplined enough to make myself run everyday (especially in the current weather) though going to Crossfit has helped. My slowest 5k this year was 51 minutes (at the time I had two of my fastest miles but the last mile was straight uphill with a 14 percent grade), my fastest was 46:00 even. So even from pre-injury last year I have shaved over a minute off my overall time. Considering I don’t practice running, I’d say that’s pretty damn good.

The best part about running is that it’s free. You don’t need a gym membership, you don’t need fancy equipment (in fact I hate running on treadmills). I used to run on a high school track, now I go out onto the paved or gravel flat trails in town. The 5ks do add up but they usually give out a free t-shirt and sometimes other sweet swag. Not only that but running will also translate into better metabolic conditioning overall. The best way to get better at metcon is to do more metcon (arrrrhhhhhh!!!!! This is my agony)!

I would definitely encourage anyone looking to start a low cost fitness regime to download Couch to 5k (c25k) app on their phone, put on some gangsta rap and handle it. C25k starts with 60 second intervals of running followed by 90 second intervals of rest and increases week by week. If you need to repeat a week you are able to repeat is as many times as you need. If you need to work up to running for 60 seconds, then turn on week 1 and run as long as you can and repeat week 1 until you can comfortably run all the 60 second intervals with just 90 seconds of break in between. You’ll improve faster than you think.

The truth about fat and exercise & tools to help

Why can fat people be athletes? Well, because body fat and athleticism are the children of your dad’s estranged wife’s cousin who had 5 wives and no one is really sure if the kids are even his. Meaning, barely related. I know what you’re thinking. Did I just read that right? Or you’re thinking this girl is an idiot my doctor says…. My point is you can’t out exercise a bad diet. Let me repeat, “You can’t out exercise a bad diet.”

I am 100% proof of that. I’ve been busting my ass in the gym for 1.5 years, I’ve lost about 28 pounds total and still have probably 130 pounds to go. You should be thinking, “But wait, you do Crossfit. How are you still overweight? Isn’t Crossfit like super intense?” Yes, it is intense! I am overweight because you cannot and will not ever out exercise a bad diet. As much as I want to go drink beer every weekend, eat pizza and burgers and all the cookies, I know I will end up back to where I started, pushing 300 lbs and being miserable. In addition, I won’t be able to perform in the gym because I’ll be a bloated sack of belching indigestion every time I move.

With so many fad diets out there, it’s easy to get lost. The saddest part is even doctors fall for the gimmicks (by the way Dr. Oz is a quack, stop taking dieting advice from him). Truth be told is doctors have very little nutritional training, if any. Even within the world of nutrition, there is controversy. Why? Because different things work for different people.

If you’re lost in the dieting world, there are a lot of tools out there to help you.

MyFitnessPal-The first tool I’m going to recommend is of course MFP. Free to use and accessible online and from any and all smart phones. I’ve been using MFP on and off for years. One of the things I like the most about MFP is the community. As the majority of my friends don’t make their diary public or even log in daily it’s helpful for me to find people in similar circumstances as myself and be friends with them. Currently, I’m friends with a lot of Crossfitters. I like to see what they eat because I never have enough ideas. In the past I found friends in the area I lived who were able to recommend stores for good running shoes, various events, etc.

If It Fits Your Macros (IIFYM)- I am a big proponent of macro nutrient (fats, carbs, protein) counting. It’s not enough to say eat 1500 calories every day and come to find out you get all 1500 calories from gummy bears and brownies (mmmm brownies). How you fuel your body is just as important as how much you eat. IIFYM can be free if you understand how to calculate your Macros, however, I would recommend hiring someone to do it. I’ve had people do it in the past for about $30. You should have them recalculated every 10 lbs or so which means this can get expensive (but to be honest I would probably cheat and just keep my nutrient percentages the same and lower overall calories because I’m a cheap bastard). The great thing about IIFYM is that it keeps your Macro count constant everyday. So once you plan a few days in food that fit your macro profile you can repeat those days as needed to ensure you’re hitting your goal. This diet style allows you to fit in your favorite junk foods once in a while, though you generally will struggle hitting your macro targets if you don’t eat healthier foods.

Eat to Perform (ETP)- ETP is the program that I currently utilize and am having some great success with. It’s costly. Plan rates vary and once you choose a plan you cannot change it until a lifetime membership opportunity comes around, and even then you’re either stuck with the plan you chose or the lifetime membership rates. I personally think their website is terrible! It literally looks like a spam site, but I promise it is not. Currently there is a waiting list to join as it’s really trending in the Crossfit crowd. An additional negative (just to get them out of the way all at once) is that they don’t yet have an app for Android (Android for lyfe)! ETP is a carb cycling program and they review your progress every couple of days. If you really like food (especially carbs), this is the plan for you because every time they want you to lose more weight they give you more food. I don’t know why or how it works, but it does.

I know there are many other tools out there such as Weight Watchers, Renaissance Periodization, etc that I unfortunately cannot speak to as I have zero experience with these programs. Please know I do not promote fad diets of any kind. These are programs that help manage portion control. You still choose what you eat. You will not see me promote things such as Keto, Adkins, Herbalife, Shakeology, Advocare, etc. I don’t believe in the sustainability or corporate intentions of these diets and do not follow them.

Non-controversial Disclaimer:

I made this blog to represent and encourage fathletes everywhere. But part of being an athlete is performance and a key to performance is fuel. While I’m happy being a fathlete and showing the world what I can do I am also aware that having a high body fat percentage does impact my overall health. The reason I started working out was to optimize my health and it’s the reason I will constantly seek a diet that complements my healthier lifestyle choices.

In order to make these choices, I had to choose to love my body. I may not love what it looks like all the time and there are definitely things about it I don’t like, but I love my body for what it can do. I love my body because it’s my home. I love my body because it’s the only body I will ever have and despite the social norms and stereotypes, people with body fat are worthy of confidence, self love and self worth. Once you find those things you will be able to make the healthiest choices for your body. After all, we all make sacrifices for those we love and if you want to make sacrifices (like putting the brownie down) for yourself you need to love yourself.

Inspiration of the Fathlete

I received inspiration to start this blog from a my first ever Crossfit Competition. That’s right, I’m one of those annoying Crossfitters who talks about Crossfit because, of course, the first rule of Crossfit is you must tell everyone you Crossfit. But that is irrelevant to this post. I competed in my first ever Crossfit competition, the 5th Annual Crossfit Believe Summer Throwdown, in the women’s scaled division.

Now, a bit of background on my Crossfit experience. I’ve been doing Crossfit for a little over a year and a half so ideally you’d think I’d be good at it. But for me, that is definitely not the case. While I have improved in strength and stamina, I have improved very little. What are the things that people expect to happen when they start working out? Lose weight, be able to actually run a mile, lift heavier objects with greater ease. All of those things happened. My weight varies. I’ve stayed constant between 18-30 lbs lost but I’m still 130-150 lbs more than the average female Crossfitter and hold steady at around 45 percent body fat. I can run further and last longer in metabolic conditioning exercises but not by much and my strength has increased, but that in itself is a slow process.  (As a side note, I’ve only ever run a mile once in my life without stopping. I’m convinced I have the capacity to do it, I just lack the discipline. Running is so boring for me!)

So I went to this competition on Saturday and for those of you who don’t know how Crossfit competitions work they go something like this. You have between 4 & 5 short, miserable workouts that you compete in. Based on when you finish and your times you are given a point score. The person with the most points at the end of the day is in first place, the person with the least points is in last place. (I’m purposely not differentiating between winners and losers because if you have any idea on how much work these competitions are you know that no one really loses).

Working up to this competition I’m fully convinced that with no reasonable metabolic stamina I would surely come in last place. I was fine with that until Saturday. I arrived at the competition and low and behold I was by far the fattest competitor. Knowing how preconceived notions work and that the stereotypes with body fat are generally rather negative, I knew every single person watching this competition expected me to be last, including myself and . probably even including the trainer who attended from my own gym.

The first event definitely reinforced my demise as it was cardio intense and 10 minutes long. I barely made it into the third round while every other girl in my heat, including the ones with abs had either finished or almost finished the workout by the 10 minute time cap. It was frustrating. I wanted to prove people wrong about fat people. I wanted the people in that gym to know that body fat does not equate to athletic ability, but in the cardio department I’m failing miserably.

As the day went on I took last in another event, 800 m run with a 20 lb ball. No surprise there, I am world’s slowest runner and again running is relatively boring to me, so I lack discipline in that area. I took 2nd to last in the Air Force WOD which was definitely disappointing as I had an advantage that the weight was low. So, in total 3/5 events I ranked 12th and 13th out of 13.

However, there was some saving grace. A strength workout! I can lift some shit so I figured this would be my area to shine. I knew I likely wouldn’t take first, but it was something I knew I wouldn’t come last or 2nd to last in. Low and behold I took 4th. Then, a short sprint workout. I have power and in some cases can have speed (running excluded), but no stamina. My power and speed is short lived. Apparently short lived to 3:05 for a 6th place finished and with that I did not take last place in the competition, I finished 11/13.

I don’t want you all to think I’m a sore loser (but if you do, oh well I probably won’t change your mind). I have no problem with finishing last or coming in last place. As I said before, everyone who finished won. They burned a ton of calories, had fun, supported each other, made connections. But I really wanted to show people that fat people can be athletes. We can compete. Because even in a community as supportive as Crossfit there are stereotypes from small athletic people, but also from fat people themselves regarding their strength and capabilities.

Crossfit is scary for normal people, but extremely intimidating when you have been made to feel fat, lazy and useless all your life. I want to show fat people, hey you can do this and you can be good at it, even if you’re 150 lbs overweight. I want to show elite athletes that maybe I’m not at your level now, but I can get there and this is where I’m starting. I love it when new people, especially women, at my gym come and ask how long I’ve been doing Crossfit and respond, “So if I keep at this I can be as good at this as you are?”

I respond “Yes” while thinking to myself, you can surpass me.

After the Crossfit competition I got home and looked at my Eat To Perform Facebook group to find a post from a woman who does Crossfit and weighs 350 lbs, 200 lbs more than the average Crossfit athlete. She spoke with the trainer at her box earlier that day who reassured her, through her frustration, that she was doing great. He told her that she needed to remember that she is essentially doing the same movements as a lot of the 150 lb athletes with a 200lb weight vest on. If you put a 200 lb weight vest on 150lb Crossfit athlete (or any athlete for that matter), that person probably wouldn’t be able to perform as well as they’d like either.

So that is why I created this blog. To help challenge the stereotypes that body fat=lazy and unable. These stereotypes held by athletes, trainers and most importantly fathletes (fat athletes) themselves. You are far more capable than you think you are. I will show you, just keep reading.